When people say stuff to me it's usually about my mom being a drunken disgrace to the town or they bring up something that one of my family did years ago and when they say stuff to my wife they question if she is a good mother and they say that they are going to call child services on us for some bogus reason and they question her if she cheated on me and got pregnant and if she is lying to me about me being the real father of are daughter.