((((((((((((((((( Dec & Kath & Family ))))))))))))))))))))))

I can completely understand how you feel right now Dec. So much pain and hurt, and even when you are told there is no basis for it all...it leaves you feeling lost. Like, what just happened?? Why did it happen?? What are we supposed to do now?? How do we pick up the pieces and move on??

All of those questions can be answered slowly....one day at a time. Give yourself and the others in your family time to absorb everything....to put it in it's place...to work through all the mixed emotions you are feeling. The love between you and your wonderful wife will help you through this too.

This has been a difficult and stressful time for you with many emotions running amok. It will take a bit of time for them to calm down to a point where you can feel more comfy. But the day will come my friend, the day will come.

Sending you healing thoughts and happiness for this Christmas season and a brand new year to find the happiness you so deserve.

xoxoxo
sabby