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Originally Posted by Jellyfish18
That part aside - an update.
I called my Dad weeks ago, he says every week he will come at my request but didn't. Now he promised he will be here today at 3 pm. He did not as much as contact me to tell me he can't make it. He is at a wedding (distant relative) which clearly took priority over me feeling unwell, like everything else. His phone isn't working but he could have borrowed it.
I rang grandma, his Mum, and she already answered with a "what is it?". Then she said she is a bit ill and she said goodbye in possibly a minute of talking. She does not even talk to me very long.
So I am needing serious advice. I have been in bed for more than two months, I don't see that changing very soon. "Dad" may come tomorrow or never, considering what's been going on, and he was supposed to help me. It's incredibly depressing. Staying just with grandma I wonder ... She can not help me get a job or even introduce me to anyone there. I don't want to just wait for nothing there ... The uncle she lives with is out of the house most of the day. I just don't know.
Dad could potentially be helpful but you see this? I will wait until tomorrow but then I should make a decision. To go to hers or stay? But I can't because I can't stay in bed anymore.
I can't believe what is going on.
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I don't think that grandma would be able to help with job either. She seems too fragile.
If you need a job, you can fill appilicatiin online or go to places and ask if they hire, or look for adverts online or newspapers. You might want to ask your therapist to help you fill out applications. Maybe she can give you ideas. Maybe you can start with part time job? Something simple. Also call your psychiatrist tomorrow and tell him that you have been in bed for two months. Just see what he says. No way he'd say "oh that's great".
You need to start advocating for yourself. There is no other way. You can't keep waiting for someone to come save you. That's just how it is.