All I want is to live some place where it's safe to be myself. That goes for everything, not just sexuality. Personality wise, I only feel comfortable being myself at work...sexually and gender wise, there really isn't any place at the moment I'm really comfortable being myself.

I'd rather just be rejected by default than put everything out there and be open (like I used to) and just be rejected for who I actually am. Of course, that goes beyond the scope of this thread.