You got answers that were hard to hear...and I usually can look at a situation and get a different perspective than other people...but, I feel the same here...I think he is wanting you to tell him ..how much YOU love him...and how great he is...and feed his ego.

I think it is time to tell him to screw.

I had an affair with a married man when I was younger and I can honestly say it is one of the biggest regrets I have in my life..I look back and I wonder what was it about myself that I didn't feel good enough or strong enough to tell the man who was obviously USING ME...to screw...because that is in my opinion what married men who cheat do...use women to get a "new piece of ***"...

And I think it is usually the women that come across as vulnerable and having low self esteem because i was both those things when I was having an affair with that man.

It was over 35 years ago...and I hate that man for pulling me into his need to fill his ego...