The people in my life act the same way. They can be so controlling and mean, but if you act even remotely like that in anyway they get mad at you and start coming after me making me feel like crap. And when I don't speak up and try to keep my head down, I'm being to much of a pushover and I should try to be confident...blah blah blah... It amazes me how people can't see the way they act or just don't care.