I have bipolar and just met someone with BP also. He is separated and is doing ok now. He and I get along well. We went out on a date and also had sex. I am quite hypersexual and so is he. He and I work. He is seeking a divorce from his wife he says because she cheated on him. However, I am not sure if this is true. I just have taken his word. He chats with me on social media. He is quite stressed from being a day trader so he can't always be in contact with me. I don't have any friends and want him to be my friend and lover. I like him much. He has a past history of hurting himself in order to kill himself. He also had a stroke. I was wondering if anybody else out there has had a relationship with another bipolar person and how is it going? Is it difficult? I had a prior relationship with a person with schizophrenia and it was awful. The person could not care for himself, and it ended in divorce. I married him thinking I could care for him but could not since I could not even care for myself. This time I want it to work but believe I should not marry. Should I tell him that I don't want to marry him? We just met. I thought I wait until we get really serious. Or, should I tell him now? What do people advise? Thank you!!