So, I'm not going to rerun the whole thing.
Suffice it to say, I need to dump someone but I have never been the dumper, only the dumpee.
He is a VERY sensitive man, and he is deeply emotional about everything. How do I dump someone like that? How do I steel my resolve against tears and begging and how do I not crush him?

It is my own fault. I should have listened to my friend when he told me that this relationship was a bad idea. Sorry, "friend."
You know me better than I know myself and I need to start listening to you more.
Anyway, how would any of you deal with this?
thanks
Angel - Tina