She was giving me gifts for my kids, telling me she loved me, talking to me about her family and any good or bad things relating to them or her friends. She would ask me questions about how I feel about something but then would also answer it in the same breath so I couldn't answer it. She totally minimised things i have gone through so I didn't feel able to bring it up to talk about. She also use to give me a disapproving look when I would try and bring up certain topics so I would avoid it and then there were other topics if I tried to bring up she would just focus on some other part of the story and not what I needed to talk about. There's other stuff aswell