I've been called unfair names too. Who called you this? Was the person important to you? Their words seem to really effect you as such name calling would likely effect most people. Don't internalize a judgement from someone who doesn't know all the details and is not inside your head and body. If they say something useful or helpful, that's one thing but what they labeled you is not useful or helpful and I'm sorry it was said. (((Hugs)))