I try to stay realistic about relationships and the idea of "love" Thus I have found that entertaining the hope of there being one single person who has been made specifically for you is unhealthy and can lead to disastrous relationships.
If he has been married 20 years its easy to assume he is at least 40 years old but he seems to lack any real emotional maturity. The girl he is cheating on his wife with would be wise to take notice that he is probably in the midst of a midlife crisis and is prone to reckless life choices and she will likely face the same problems his wife is now.
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“I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it.”
― Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland & Through the Looking-Glass
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