Well, I think BDSM often functions that way, where one serves their mistress and is loyal to her, but nobody should "own" another person. However, since this woman isn't my friend and we only met due to me going there, I guess anything outwith that could be a breach or maybe seen as a breach. Although you would think it would be up to an individual whether they wanted to see that person outside, but again, it's probably because I got a red mark from that other person being a blabbermouth, but who knows?