I apologize if this is an insensitive question but do you absolutely need your boyfriend to take you out everywhere? Are you able to walk, take a bus, or (not as cost efficient but still works) a taxi?

It sounds like you have very little independence in this relationship and make it sound as if you're stuck in the house - that is not good! What do you do to occupy your time? Do you work, volunteer, go to school, etc? I'm just trying to get a better understanding of what your daily life is like.