Thanks, yes DollMage pretty much from the word go he was possessive of me, it has been a feature of our life together. Other than that we have a good supportive relationship. I'm not saying a photo of me standing close to another man would trigger him to feel jealous but think it's something that played on my mind without me knowing.

Interestingly yesterday a male friend jokingly commented (in person not facebook) on how far apart I was standing from the rest and I explained I had not noticed until afterwards and it had troubled me.

So we looked through some other group photos on my profile and noticed a few with women where I was closer (shoulder to shoulder), it was only the ones near men where I stood back (about a foot).

He told me not to worry that it was very understandable for a married woman to not stand close to an unrelated male, so it was good to get his perspective.

I feel a lot better about this now.