Only yesterday in session I talked about sexual issues with my T. I found it really difficult & incredibly embarrassing, but it did help me. I'm not sure if I too have this disorder or whether it's just a result of being SA as a child. I'm now in a relationship & I am struggling again! My past ways of coping was to get at least 2 bottles of wine down my neck first & then just dissociate. I am female & I have a male T & I think in a way, that helps & he's quite old too & I think that helps. He was just so supportive & although I find it incredibly difficult to talk about, he made it easier for me.