Rose going to bed for the rest of the day is completely okay if you are worn out mentally and physically.

I can tell from your posts you are a very intelligent woman with a lot to give, and you have posted before about your nursing career - you sound very able. Right now though you sound worn out, that is understandable.

I think it's a good idea to talk to his social worker, they tend to assume everything is okay until they here otherwise (least that' how it is in UK), let them know things are not okay.