I'm going to respond to these messages later today, guys. I need to get some sleep, but I do have some things to say. I will say right now, I agree with you the situation is bad for my cats, bird (my boyfriend bought him, long before we moved here and had cats, but I consider him mine, too), my boyfriend and me. I agree changes must be made. I'm hoping the new psychologist will be able to help. Some things are holding me back, but I do care very much about the animals and my well being. Please try not to think I don't care. I am hindered by my OCD and fear.