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Old Aug 04, 2017, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted by BlueJeans00 View Post
I was wondering is there a psychological method where
a therapist asks you "Do you want tea"? But in your response you say no.
The reason why Im asking this, is because I experienced his more than once with my therapist. Also to add I read a book where it was saying along the lines giving someone else tea is a form of trust?

Any ideas?
Maybe they are being kind and courteous? Maybe it's a way to help you relax. There is a Therapist where I am that has a coffee machine in his own waiting room. It makes all sorts of drinks. (If only I could work out how to use the gadget). He also has fruit and cookies.

You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to say yes if/when you want one. Don't sweat the small stuff.