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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia
See, this is one point of view. Mine is the complete opposite and I refuse to spend my time and money on therapy that has no direction, purpose, and goals. I tried to do it that way for a while in the past and had mostly negative experiences. So perhaps the T could ask the client in the beginning (and/or occasionally) what style they prefer, and then adjust accordingly on the go, make feedback optional and flexible etc. I am quite confident that some clients prefer working towards goals and evaluate with some regularity both their progress and whether the T is useful in the process, others don't find these things helpful, and probably there is everything in between. I like the idea of asking because some people are just too shy to bring up criticisms by themselves.
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I think that's great that you know how you want to work in therapy. I know too and for me any T who would ask in the beginning what style I will prefer would just get fired immediately. If he can't adapt to the style I need without asking me explicitly then he is just not someone I want to work with.