I do not think any of these things are a measure of self worth. They are all social constructs.

Will you never have another relationship? Of course you will meet someone else.

Will you never be able to purchase a house? You cannot be certain of that, and if not, does it really have anything to do with how good you are? No.

Sometimes even neurtypical people find themselves in positions where they cannot care for themselves, it has nothing to do with you being or not being enough and it also is not a permanent situation.

Would you fault another person with a different illness while they are struggling with symptoms? Many illnesses cause people to be unable to have relationships, own houses or care for themselves and we would never call them not good enough.

You are good enough.