You and I have had our conversations in the past and I know you are good enough
for anyone or anything. You are a super nice person and that is very hard to find
so you can be very proud of that. As far as home ownership goes don't even give
it another thought. I have owned a home that I had to sell in my divorce and I rent
now and probably will for a long time to come if not permanently.
The thing that I like about renting is the freedom, there are no major expenses
once you move in and it is relatively easy to move if you like.
When you own a home there are so many major expenses that are all on you.
I love New Jersey but as you know it is a very expensive state but keep in mind
there are many reasons for that and you need to take advantage of all the good stuff
we have in this state. As far as a girlfriend goes remember that you are still a young
man and I know for sure that the right girl will come along, they always do.
Please don't feel pressured by the world around us there is so much about it that
is just all wrong. I hope this helps in some way.