There should be the option of "Yes, I know what I'm working on" , so I had to choose "other." Good poll though. ����

I have a very clear list of goals that I presented to both of my former Ts and my current T, without having ever been asked for them. Disasters 1 & 2 never once mentioned them, but T C told me that he is very proud of me and has been working on them with me. It's the first time I have ever thought a T "cared" about my goals and about me getting "better." I have a lot of long term goals that won't be reached for several years, but he's grinding away at the easier ones, i.e., learning healthy coping skills. It's made a huge difference in my miserable existence.