I was with him ten years. My daughters are 21 and 19. My 19 year old still lives with me. She hates my new SO because we've been having issues. I'd relocated to the state he was in to be with him, but we both felt it was best that I come back to my home state where my older daughter was. We've had about a month to cool off and I want to try to work things out, but my younger daughter hates him. When she heard he and my stepdaughter were coming to visit, she got a sullen attitude with me. My older daughter was visiting that day. I lost my temper with my younger daughter over her attitude, then went upstairs and cried. My older daughter and my younger daughter went outside so I guess my older daughter could comfort her or something. The thing is I am having financial issues and I need my SO's help. My daughter's lack of a cooperative attitude isn't helping! Anyway, after I got finished crying, I went on an outing to be by myself for a while. That's when I got my daughter's text.