I'm not going to go into detail here too much ok at all.

Does anyone know how to deal with a codependent parent?

Long story short I'm adopted and brought to the US at age 4 along with my two brothers.

I was raised in an orphanage while my 2 brothers lived in a different oorphanage. Before this my oldest brother lived with my biological father who was an abusive alcholic among other things I will not go into mainly because I don't fully know.

My adoptive family before they met us was the stereotypical perfect loving happy family.

My brother abused my mom we all hurt each other and I have memories in my head I would rather not describe.

My brother who lived with my blood father has been gone for over 4 years now in the military we don't talk anymore.

My mom I believe has DPD I believe to the one's she is closest too her biolgical family… And she is codependent to me and my other blood brother.

How do I deal with this codependent part that's all I want to know right now please and thank you?