It sounds like you casually walked into a dungeon (by yourself?) using porn as your knowledge base.
I can't just walk into a church & call myself a catholic. That's the example I was making. You could substitute anything really.
You also use Mistress & Dominatrix in the same sentence.
They're NOT the same!

You call "these women" sadists. Wow, there's that broad brush I was talking about.
Then you call the woman a tart!

WTF!
Sorry I would've blacklisted you too.