i think woman find it more exciting wrapping gifts so children can rip the paper of to get to there gifts, my hubby has helped me wrap this year but he doesnt every year it depends when i decide to do it and what hes doing,
but he did put up the tree and the children decorated it and he hung the decorations
im lucky hubby does do xmas dinner and we both dish up and i do dishes, but hubby is a good cook
but down to buying pressies for the kids joint money bought them but hubby still will go and buy something especially from him

each man is differant maybe asking for a hand to do something like putting gifts by daughters bed after shes asleep hubbys are great at this