I'm really sorry to say it, but it does sound like there is something really wrong with this at. I mean, if you are a T in counselling psychology/psychotherapy, then your work and your career consists of arranging appointments and seeing clients. How can you forget?? It seems be like a teacher forgetting they are supposed to be in school, or a car mechanic forgetting that there are cars waiting to be fixed?

I know that she is really nice to you, and better than previous abusive T of course (which is not hard I think as that bar was set pretty low!!) I wonder whether as well as this T, you would consider seeing another T? I'm just saying it because unfortunately this T doesn't seem all that reliable either.