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Old Aug 05, 2017, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I never had a male who was just platonic, but hung out with me, unless he was gay. I don't understand sex without feelings developing. I know people tell me they do that, I just can't see that ever happening.

If someone had sex with me, then treated me like 'see ya sometime, Buddy'. I just don't understand how you are then sharing the intimacy and passion of having sex.

If the sex is good and the couple like each other, the romantic relationship develops. A + B = C.

What kind of sex are people having that provoke no emotions? Do they kiss? Isn't a kiss passionate? Doesn't showing passion mean you desire?
Sometimes people just want sex. Not relationship or emotions. Just because you have never had that urge or experience it doesn't mean it's not all possible. Romantic feelings don't necessarily develop when people had sex. Not every sexual encounter is love and happily ever after. I see that you don't understand it. I get it. Not understanding something doesn't negate that it exists for other people at various stages of their life.