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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am in total agreement that it's not healthy. Friends with benefits or casual sex aren't things for me whatsoever. I am happily married.
I personally was talking about that there might times and circumstances in people's lives when they dont want anything else besides casual
Encounter. I don't know anyone who want to spend their entire lives having casual sex. Certainly not.
But you also need to understand that not everyone spends their whole life married. Many people end up single or widowed or divorced or between relationships or preoccupied with other things etc and NOT wanting serious relationship at that particular moment. It doesn't mean they might not want something else at the moment.
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I have been there--it is a situation where you feel like "this is the best I can do" or maybe they are a friend and you don't want to hurt their feelings--when you get involved because you think it's the best you can do, there is nothing worse for your self esteem--nothing.....but I know it happens because people get lonely or are curious or simply have no self control....