Hey abby, sorry your feeling so crappy right now. I hate that question too. Especially since the answer is very commonly "crappy". But at least if they are asking they care right?

Its a piece of hope.....at least in my opinion when they ask. even if it seems redundant. I hope you can feel better tonite, and you my pm me anytime if you want to chat.

Hope you can find a smile through the pain tonite,
take care,
Colleen