oh thankyou so much everyone, you all made my day.....it's surprising how much happier my family and I are now this has happened, we all saw her in her true light .... all of us together and I'm so sad my dad has een affected by it all....

You all mean so much to me.....less you and happy Christmas....

hugs to one and all.....my love always and forever, Jin xxxxxxx

dances around room hugging herself......I feel so free....yay