My therapist wants us to say who is present and often asks whoever is out to give their name but as far as know nobody will. It feels far too dangerous to do that. I don't know about RA but our abusers did call out alters insiders whatever so there is a terror about giving away names like it is giving a key to somebody else to lock or unlock as they please. Every time she asks for a name it is very very triggering for this system.
Are you still in therapy dlantern?