I don't think your job is to wonder if she will accept your feelings or not. I think your job is to tell her how you feel. I agree that you expressed it very clearly in your post. Your T needs to know she retraumatized you and if reading or giving her a printout of what you wrote here will do that, it's important. She's a good T, but sometimes she doesn't seem to be on the same wavelength as you are. T's aren't mind-readers. I think it would be helpful for you to be totally honest with her so you can continue the amazing work you've been doing. You have accomplished a lot in therapy, granite!!!