Well, the reason I like the married bipolar man is because he and I share common disorders and experiences. Other men just don't empathize and don't care. He is separated and is good to me. So, I am not too concerned about him hurting me. I know his situation and he knows mine. We get along very well. However, I am hypersexual and lonely at times. Thus, when he is not around, I like talking to other men to decrease my loneliness. I am not looking per se to have sex with other men. I just want to talk to others at times for fun. I think everybody's advice here is good. But, I'm going to just play it safe and stick with him for awhile. He is tall and handsome which helps. Also, he is very romantic. I do like him and hope for the best. I have problems with being hypersexual with men and this may be more of a problem than I care to acknowledge. I need to watch myself. I don't want to get hurt nor hurt anybody. Thank you all for your suggestions though. I will follow my heart and not worry too much about whether or not he will leave his wife. I am like I said not interested in marriage for now. Thus, he says he is leaving and in the process of divorcing. But, for me his just being with me at times makes me happy.