Oh I know we are all capable of surviving and it is generally not a matter of life and death and I hope my post didn't come across that I was suggesting otherwise. I guess I struggle with the whole idea of needs and being able to say I need something that on an intellectual level I'm aware that I don't actually 'need' it per say. I actually envy and admire others who are able to say when they need something and are comfortable with coming out and saying it especially to their T.