Hi,

I'm on a dating site and get many contacts for sex. I usually turn down most of them. But, as I written before, I dated one man who is separated and is bipolar like me and we hit it off pretty well. Now, I'm on there still and so is he. I receive many messages and for fun I talk to other men. Now, there is another man who wants to meet me and is divorced. He is a dentist and doing well financially. However, I talked to him because I am lonely and just wanted to talk to someone. I really like the man who is bipolar but don't know if I should limit myself to one man. He is married still. He says he does not get many contacts from women but is still on the site. He is a paying member whereas I am not but still get messages. I don't know if it is fair to play the market so to speak and look around. I don't have any commitment to the man with bipolar yet. He came by yesterday and we had sex again. So, may be that is all he wants. Also, another lover I had who never talks to me except for when he wants sex contacted me today, but I turned him down. I am not interested in being booty call for someone who does not want to talk to me besides when he wants sex. My question is even though I like the man with bipolar, is it ok to play the market and see who is out there besides him? Do you think it is wrong of me to do this? I have no current plans to get married to anybody but am seeking a friend who is a lover too. Any advice? Thank you!!