Quote:
Originally Posted by Patagonia
Only 11% of primates on this earth are monogamous. That's it. So where this idea of being monogamous comes from......well for me, I think it's driven my man made religious ideas & ultimately about control!
We are all sexual beings & there's absolutely nothing wrong with exploring that! There should be no guilt; problem is society will make you feel that way. Guaranteed!
It's hard to go against society, but you are in control of your wants & desires & like stated above, keep that message in the forefront of all conversations.
|
I think it's extremely important that all partners are informed that the person or both have sex with other people. Then it's fine.
I don't believe it's anything to do with society. If particular couple is ok to sleep around, then there should be no guilt or judgement. It's their choice.
But it's a different story if people aren't aware. Then we denied them free choice. Personally I don't want to be with a man who sleeps around. So if he informs me, I have a choice of staying or leaving. If he doesn't inform me, then he denies me my free choice, he keeps me around under false pretenses. It's not cool. It's not cool in the same sense as not informing your date about being married or having children etc fundamental stuff.
There is nothing liberating about lying to people. It's selfish. But if both are truthful then of course it's entirely their business.