I have everything SP has been given, from a couple different therapists.

Me, I would rather have email contact provided she'll respond and her responses aren't going to be just "we'll discuss it when I get back." But I don't think transitional objects are infantilizing. Calling them a formal name like transitional objects when we have such objects for almost every close relationship in our lives - like I have rosary pouch from a favorite great aunt that still smells like her thirty years on - seems weird, but not childish.

But you should go with whatever you think would be more helpful to you.