No. I don't want to keep the kids from their dad. And I work a lot so having my mom with the kids is just bad. I see how she talks to them and my nephews. Both my parents really. I was having flashbacks of my childhood...it was not cool. Instead of being grandparents and enjoying their grandchildren they are just living their life the way they always do. Same routine...eat and watch tv. Dad on computer all night. They feel they need to dicipline the kids and they don't and they shouldnt...honestly I was so happy to see them together having fun...we never had cousins around ever...who cares if someone spilled something...its not the end of the world, but it pulled away from their routine...but like I said...I feel awful...this whole trip was because my dad wanted us all together before he can't do it anymore. But also my brother kept saying bad things and was trying to get me to agree. his wife asked me, his friend asked me a couple of months ago. they seem so nice and sweet and provided a good home...but it was hell. But I am trying to just think about the good things, there were quite a bit...I just don't like to hurt their feelings...