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Old Aug 06, 2017, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I agree, telling one about the other is more honorable. But, players gonna play, know what I mean...

When I was dating, and I know the guy I was dating was messing with other women and he certainly didn't volunteer that information and come out and tell me. Who would? What would I have said? I would have dumped him, knowing he was with someone else. That's why you don't tell. Sure it's kinda skanky. But......
Yeah I think cheating or lying is horrible. I do understand though that in the past when divorce was unacceptable or unattainable, especially for women, so there was often no other choice but cheat. Or when people couldn't openly date and had to hide. It's still the case in many cultures. There is no need to do any of it nowadays in the western world whatsoever. We are free to do whatever within limits. Heck that dude who slept around could probably find a girl who wouldn't mind.