I am one of those people who make plans and always cancel. I never make plans with the intention of hurting or letting people down, I just make plans because I really want to meet that person but when it comes to it I just can't deal with it of have been so unorganized that I literally can't make it... I have never looked at it for the person on the receiving side. It's crazy because I am a very caring loving person and if someone or a friend really needed me I would be there..please try to speak with these people who let you down because like me if they realised how it made you or other's feel then for the future they would make sure they turned up x