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Originally Posted by Claire Warman
I am one of those people who make plans and always cancel. I never make plans with the intention of hurting or letting people down, I just make plans because I really want to meet that person but when it comes to it I just can't deal with it of have been so unorganized that I literally can't make it... I have never looked at it for the person on the receiving side. It's crazy because I am a very caring loving person and if someone or a friend really needed me I would be there..please try to speak with these people who let you down because like me if they realised how it made you or other's feel then for the future they would make sure they turned up x
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I can see where your coming from. That can happen. I have thought about saying something to some of them but then I worry they will feel pressured into doing something they may not want to do which is something I would also not want. I'd want them to do something because they want to, not because they feel pressured. I have told a couple of them politely to just let me know if they will cancel though. Canceling and not saying anything is worse than cancelling and telling the person before the scheduled meet up time.