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Originally Posted by Patagonia
I did reply that this conversation should be at the forefront. I'm NOT promoting cheating.
And yes I think society has a great deal to do with it. Where does the basic principle come from in being exclusive?
In the primate world it's for breeding purposes only.
So when did humans decide that being monogamous was a moral decision? I'm not wanting to argue here, but bec of our harsh society rules there's many people out there that are dead inside, not really living, bec what they want is not condoned by society.
Why would the original poster even ask if it's ok that they look or talk to other people? Bec they've been taught (by society) it's not really acceptable. Maybe taboo.
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^^This^^
That's why I give the finger to society and do things my own way.
As long as you're not hurting anybody than you should have every right to whatever you want. People who disagree are part of the problem and not the solution.
So yeah, I agree that the OP needs to make her own decision about this. She should do whatever makes her happy and stop worrying about what others might think.