I wish I could ! They , ( 2 out of 3 ) , won't talk to me at all. They are acting like children. The other one , my SO , so to speak , shuts me down immediately. She's also very good at passive aggressive techniques.
I can't explain what happened in detail , but I can say that I exhibited enormous restraint. I offered to attend family counseling with all of them but have been turned down. I guess it's time to face reality and understand what needs to be done. This is all very emotionally draining.

Thanks.....