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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
Just a simple question: What do you do with family members who just focus on one argument versus 100 acts of kindness, giving , and understanding ? In other words , 99% of the time there were no arguments. There was civility. There was accommodation of THEIR wants and needs. But if I bring up something they don't agree with all of the good is forgotten and all I get is how difficult I am.
I feel totally disrespected and used. My views are ignored or tossed aside.
I'm always the one who is wrong. Guess I'm not getting with the program.
I can't question anything ! I'm getting very tired of living like this.
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I get treated the same way. Hate to say it, but I am not myself around my family. In fact, I am more myself around friends than my family. I don't know how I would approach it. For me, I plan on distancing myself from my family once I move out. You don't have to do it but it could seem like the only option.