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Originally Posted by TerryL
i have a dear friend who loves to talk. she can talk for 4 to 5 hrs at a time. she recently met someone and she gushes for hours about him. i want to be there for her but after 2 hours of hearing about how great he is, i am tired of it. i think it is not only the 'tmi' aspect that is wearing, but also the conversations are now mostly one-way. i have made up excuses a few times to cut things short but i am not sure how often i can do that. any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I had a couple friends like that. Everything is about them. Either just keep making excuses or politely let them know how they are bothering them. Or, steer the conversation away from them at times, although this usually doesn't work since they'll just go right back to themselves.