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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
People seem to like me better when I maintain a certain distance from them....difficult to explain.
Perhaps I become too intense. Perhaps I don't think like other people. Perhaps I'm too...something. Perhaps I seem nice, but then when people get to know me, they think I'm too crazy for them to deal with. Perhaps I have expectations that are too high...and I really shouldn't have ANY expectations. Maybe I'm draining.
I'm so stupid. I'm so messed up.
I don't know. I think, from now on until I die, I had better just keep quiet.
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I have the same problem. People seem to like me more when I am not close to them. When I start getting closer, they seem to distance themselves. I hate that, makes me feel like there is something about me that makes them dislike me, or at least not want to know me very well.