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Old Aug 07, 2017, 04:55 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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Yeah in those cases, that is a little more understanding. But for people who don't have anxiety or depression, I feel like they have no excuse.
Often we cannot know whether another is anxious or depressed, or what triggers anxiety or depression in another.

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I feel like they have no excuse.
An option might be to nonjudgmentally inquire of them as to their consistent need to cancel. Perhaps a friendly and enlightening discussion could occur.

Another possibility is to nonjudgmentally be aware that this is their consistent practice, for whatever reason, and plan accordingly.
Thanks for this!
Erebos, rdgrad15