I had this happen to me. It wasn't enough for me to call her out on it, but maybe I should have, being as though I didn't forget it.

For the first time, I didn't get a confirmation text from her for the appointment I had. When I showed up, she wasn't there...she said her kid had fell and hurt her arm. They were in the ER, etc. I was skeptical because it just happened to coincide with not rec'g the confirmation text.

I kinda put it to the side, but didn't forget.

Our t relationship ended because it seemed that she lied about getting out of another appointment with me, saying a relative had died and she had went out of town. Didn't seem to be the case, but by that time, there was little trust. She had cancelled 4 times in as many months, all on Friday's.

I dunno about yours. It could go either way. I do get what you're saying about full transparency and your t being honest with you. If she's otherwise honest, I'd prob try to believe her.