Abby, make friends with Clueless and help her instead of fighting her. She's trying to make it in reality (and that can be very confusing and scary with all those other people trying to do that too) but with you "resisting" and fighting she has to do that in return as well as try to make it so can't do anything well, anymore than you can. If you both work together you both can find true satisfaction and share and be twice as strong instead of half.